No one ever wants to have a bad time in bed. However, there's more to uplifting sex than just being familiar with the different sex positions, or having the longest endurance levels in bed.
Good and gratifying sex means that you need to know which techniques and positions to avoid, and which ones to use.
You also need to learn about a few ethical issues about sex, so that you won't physically (and emotionally) hurt your partner. Here's a sneak peek at a few of the many blunders that guys should avoid doing in bed.
Getting Too Aggressive in Bed
While a few women prefer rough sex once in a while, most women tend to view sex as something special. Thus, they'd prefer that guys treat them with utmost affection and care in bed. So instead of flinging and throwing your spouse, or lovely Melbourne Escourt, in the bed like a rag doll, why not do it with a little finesse and kindness?
And instead of pumping your way too aggressively (without her approval or encouragement), why not be mindful of her actions, and only do something when she shows you signals, or tells you outright that she wants things quick and rough?
Deliberately Ignoring The Clitoris
A lot of men wrongly assume that women often orgasm as a result of direct sexual penetration. Bt while there is really pleasure during penetration, there's one major player that's just lying there in the sidelines, and it's the clitoris.
The main job, or function, of the clitoris, is to pleasure the woman. So if you truly want to please your lady in bed, do a lot of research on the clitoris. Find out the significance of this body part, by checking out the anatomy book in the local library, or on the Internet. And once you learn a lot about the clitoris (and the different ways for stimulating it), start applying these on your lover!
Disregarding Her Erogenous Zones
If you think the woman's erogenous zones are her breasts and genitals only, well you're terribly wrong. Well, the breasts, nipples and genitals may be the top three erogenous zones, but what about her neck, shoulders, back, buttocks, feet and thighs?
To effectively determine a woman's other erogenous zones, guys should ask their ladies what she likes, as well as remember what she tells you. And of course, the guy should also take time exploring here hidden, but potentially-explosive “hot” zones.
Sticking To The Same Old Stuff
Another common mistake that guys make in bed, is stick to the same old sex position over and over again. While you don't need to try out each and every position advertised or promoted in the men's magazines, you should at least do a bit of variation, to spice up your sex life.
And if you'd like to have truly pleasurable sex with your spouse, or with your hot and lovely Melbourne Escourt, always remember that sex is best when you follow her lead, and follow the connection between the two fo you. This should lead to the best climaxes for both partners.
