There isn't any sure-fire way to please a woman as they react differently to different things. For instance, some take a while to get warmed up to the idea of doing the deed; others don't take as long. Remember, too, that not every girl is a Melbourne escourt, so some acts are off-limits, especially if they're unfamiliar to your partner.
There are things you can take note of, though, to make the experience better for her, and therefore better for you, whether you've been together for just 3 months or you've been an item for years.
1. Her arousal is a knob. It doesn't take much to get you in the mood, so when you want to get it on, she may not be ready for it yet. Get her primed and waiting by dropping hints, no matter how early it is.
Leave a note by her plate saying you can't wait for evening, or send each other dirty text messages throughout the day. By dinnertime, she won't need much more to get her to give in to desire.
2. Go slow. Sex is one of the best ways to show that the journey is just as important as the destination. Take your time to explore her body while she explores yours, and find what makes her tick. What spots respond best to your touch, what kind of stimulation gets her squirming for more – that kind of thing.
Slowing down is also important for helping your partner relax, as this makes it easier for her to really enjoy herself. If she's too anxious about performance – and even other things outside of the bedroom – she'll find it hard to climax, no matter how good you are in bed.
3. Use your strengths. Maybe you sometimes suffer from premature ejaculation, or you think your package is lacking in the size department. Whatever it is, don't let it get in the way of your fun, whether with a long-time girlfriend or a Melbourne escourt. Find something – for example, oral sex – that always works for you.
